Adult Kids Helping Their Parents Plan Financially

As many people have personally experienced, those people who are closest to retirement are one of the groups who have been hardest hit by the economic downturn. That means there are adult children who are particularly worried about the state of their parents’ finances, and are looking for ways to be able to help them out - even though they’re not in great financial shape themselves.

A recent discussion at CNN Money looked at helping out a 50-year-old parent who doesn’t have any retirement savings, but the problem is even greater for adult children with parents approaching their 60s.

Some of the problems involve actually convincing your parent that they need to be serious about saving for retirement - for the double reason of their own financial security and making sure that they don’t later become dependent on your finances. Parents don’t usually like to learn from their children, no matter how old they are, so the advice is to introduce the idea of retirement savings as tactfully as possible and with an information focus - educate them (carefully) about 401(k)s and how they could be saving more. Encouraging a parent to set up automatic deductions from their wages to put into savings is also a useful step. But above all, remember they are your parents and probably the hardest of all to advise.